Living a Fulfilled Life of Happiness,
Peace & Joy
Hey there!
My name is Jane Runchman – founder of LILA [(Sanskrit: लीला līlā) or leela (/ˈliːlə/) “joyful, divine play”] – I am a passionate personal coach specialising in living a fulfilled life of lasting happiness, deep peace and causeless joy.
I have 10 years’ experience in private personal coaching, 24 years’ experience as a bespoke fine jewellery designer and maker and 32 years’ of personal development.
I have an architecture education and background in contemporary dance, circus and gymnastics.
Paradigm Shift
Realise
Your
Brilliance
I offer private personal coaching so that you receive exactly what you need. We work at your pace on what is most important to you in a way that works for you: a bespoke approach. This generates fast results, immediate, detailed feedback and is great for mastering advanced skills. Private coaching is ideal if you love focused, individual guidance and flexible scheduling.
Personal coaching is an inside job. It is about the relationship you have with yourself, how you treat yourself, your identity, beliefs, standards, vibe, attitude, thoughts, feelings, where in the body you speak from and importantly the language you use – your operating system – which inevitably reflects in your life. I deliver potent, clear, powerful coaching so that you live the life of your dreams. We uproot the root cause of fear, anxiety and dissatisfaction which leads to quantum leaps in the quality of your life and sparks results previously undreamt of. Lasting happiness, deep peace and causeless joy are a natural outcome.
Life Audit is the first step, where we investigate your current life operating system and distinguish recipes you have been using which create your quality of life. Bespoke Engagement is the next step where you switch to a new operating system, carry out experiments in the new operating system, and your life naturally re-aligns. Open Sessions are available thereafter to dissolve specific topics or areas in your life.
Clarity, Efficiency & Simplicity
Celebrate Being Alive
What I value most is clarity, efficiency and simplicity. Your body is integral to the work as is your mind and the world. Instead of “efforting”/pushing or learning more my approach is about effortlessness, ease and flow. My goal is to reveal the beauty of living a life of fun, play and creativity – the art of living – regardless of circumstances.
My clients come from a broad range of fields: the arts, architecture, tech, finance, science, engineering, law, health and well-being, and from all around the world. They have been chasing happiness and fulfilment through external success, relationships, wealth, activities and objects, and have realised that this recipe is not working. Despite achieving many of their goals and being highly successful something is still missing and they don't know what it is. Something prevents them from enjoying the freedom and quality of life they want and have worked so hard to achieve.
“Simply, remain in waiting without waiting. You are the love in everything you love. You are the beauty in everything you behold. You are the intelligence in everything you understand. You are the sweetness in all things.” Francis Lucille
CURRENT EXPERIENCE
DOES THIS SOUND FAMILIAR?
You..
Feel compelled to micro-manage
Tend towards perfectionism
Feel anxious, agitated, depressed
Do not allow yourself to rest even though you feel exhausted
Long to be happy and despair that you will ever find the source of true happiness
Cannot truly be yourself
Feel emotionally unsafe
Are quick to judge, criticise or blame
Are hard on yourself
Have impossibly high standards
Feel nothing you achieve is enough
Feel your happiness does not last
Feel empty and unfulfilled as though there is something missing
Are competitive and need to prove yourself
Feel ill at ease, frustrated or dissatisfied
Live from a place of fear
WOULD YOU LOVE TO?
Be relaxed and enjoy stillness
Have fun and be playful
Be truly free
Experience lasting happiness
Be fulfilled and satisfied
Love your body
Be at peace with yourself and life
Truly be yourself
Experience life as easy and effortless
Trust your intuition
Follow your enthusiasm
Slow down and rest
Be kind and compassionate to yourself
Instantly access flow/peak performance
Live from a place of love
Enjoy being alive
Play win-win
Be creative and self-expressed
Feel safe and at home in life
Have peace of mind
WHAT YOU CAN DISCOVER
DEEP PEACE
Stillness, harmony,
quiet
FULFILMENT
Satisfaction, balance,
contentment
CAUSELESS JOY
Fun, enthusiasm,
play
EFFORTLESSNESS
Ease, lightness,
trust
SIMPLICITY
Clarity, intuition,
serendipity
LASTING HAPPINESS
Radiance, luminosity,
vitality
HOW YOU CAN DISCOVER IT
TAKE THE FIRST STEP
LIFE AUDIT
STEP ONE
Foundation of Awareness
Expand Your Awareness
We spend five weeks together thoroughly investigating your life
We distinguish the operating system you have been using which has been creating the results in your life thus far
We examine how you relate to your body, mind and the world
Life Audit is for you if:
You want awareness of and clarity on what is creating your current quality of life
You are open to discovering what is hidden from your view
You want to distinguish what you really want
Benefits & Outcomes:
Reveal what is creating your current life experience
Discover the operating system you are using in the background of your life
Distinguish what you really want
Identify radical next steps
What to Expect:
5 × 50-minute
private live sessions
(usually over five weeks)
Online or in person (by arrangement)
Pre-session tailored sets of questions
Written summary document
BESPOKE ENGAGEMENT
STEP TWO
Framework for a Radical Shift
Be happy and fulfilled unconditionally
We deepen the investigation, dissolving what is in the way
You establish a new way of living and raise the quality of your life
You develop discernment, listening and understanding
Bespoke Engagement is for you if:
You want to radically shift the quality and satisfaction you experience in your life
You are open to coaching
You want to experience lasting happiness, deep peace and causeless joy
You want to live a vibrant, powerful life in love
You have completed Life Audit
Benefits & Outcomes:
Feel comfortable in your own skin
Live with effortlessness and ease
Quiet the mind
Experience lasting happiness, deep peace and causeless joy
Appreciate life
Feel relaxed and fulfilled for no reason at all
Confidence
Live from a fundamental place of love
Embrace your true identity
Pursue goals from a position of freedom and ease
Celebrate being alive!
What to Expect:
52 or 26 × 50-minute
private live sessions
At a frequency that works for you
Online or in person (by arrangement)
Bespoke additional material
Bespoke programming tailored to you
OPEN SESSIONS
Transcend Specific Areas
Resolve your conundrums
We distinguish and dissolve specific areas or topics in your life
We address the root cause with clarity and discernment allowing a mind-blowing shift to follow
Open Sessions is for you if:
You want to resolve a specific area or topic
You are open to discern and let go of limiting beliefs/expectations
You have completed Life Audit
Benefits & Outcomes:
De-mystify areas of your life
Discover solutions
Reveal answers to questions
Enjoy freedom and ease
What to Expect:
50-minute
private live session(s)
Booked singly or in series
Online or in person (by arrangement)
Supporting material
Alexis, Portugal
I can highly recommend Jane as a coach. Her guidance ignited a deeper creative part of me which felt truly liberating. The sessions are always relaxing and fun. Jane is such a talented coach, the way she works allows your true expression to unfold effortlessly which I haven't experienced in any guidance before. Working with Jane has really connected me to my life and authentic creativity.
Morgan, USA
What a pleasure it was to work with such a caring and brutally honest individual. Jane taught me quite a bit of resonating truths, and I am grateful to have bumped shoulders with her along my journey to self discovery.
Lisa, Canada
I have known Jane through a program that happened to be very essential in my personal life. Jane was amazing, very understanding and with her guidance and expertise I found my way in so many ways. Found an amazing friend in Jane, she is truly amazing.
Helena, Germany
Working with Jane has supported me in unlocking the possibility to imagine more wildly for myself and to dream without limitation. Our conversations reconnected me to my playful self and my wishes. Coaching with Jane was a very sensual and soft experience; connecting to a natural environment, being part of it and translating it into my life. It offered me new tools to discover further. I particularly loved your laughter & fun, imagination & playfulness, your presence and attention, your ability to make people feel seen and worthy of attention.
Stephen, USA
Thank you Jane, your voice and pace is calming, peaceful, melodic and relaxed, leading me down a path not knowing where it would lead me. I appreciated that even as I fought against it! I’m surprised at how much I want to DO something, but after our work I found I wanted to keep doing NOTHING. Working with Jane was powerful. My body was relaxed while my mind was jumping all over the place. It was really good to have a quiet space to be present.
Ben, UK
This practise allows me to be in the moment, and expand into life with confidence, freedom and happiness. Being lead in personal coaching allows total surrender of control without any expectations of an outcome. This powerful experience transitions into my life liberating my creativity and self expression in all areas of my life. Jane has a caring, engaging and intuitive way of working that makes her a pleasure to interact with.
Live in Harmony,
Love &
Beauty
Your New Normal
Will Become:
Genuine confidence
Compassion
Trusting your intuition
Integrity
Effortless relaxation
Natural flow of life
Loving and cherishing your body
Mental clarity
Mastering listening
Mastering time
Play, fun, enjoyment
Aliveness and radiance
Effortless action
Deep satisfaction
Respect
Profound & Radical Shift
Choose
The Long Game
A deep investigation, developing discernment, dissolving what is in the way
Establishing a new life paradigm
Discover the poetic beauty of effortlessness
Discover how contagious you are
Drastically transform the impact you are having in the world
Master time
Live your limitlessness
Remember your wholeness
As a natural consequence of this work you will love and cherish your body, mind and the world
Let’s have a digital
coffee?
Get in touch to discuss living a fulfilled, happy, peaceful and joyful life
Discover
Happiness,
Peace
& Joy
WELCOME FULFILMENT
RECOGNITION
Whether you are new to coaching or have prior experience, we discover how to live a balanced, joyful, harmonious life. Your leadership, performance, health, well-being and relationships will be transformed as a consequence.
I put all the chips in so you live an unlimited life. You can count on me to be candid, audacious and potent.
WE ARE ONE TEAM
At LILA, we work together in partnership with one common goal – fulfilment and satisfaction for you and your life, in your activities and relationships. Addressing the root cause rather than the symptoms leads to unprecedented outcomes.
Let’s create something wonderful together.
HOW IT WORKS
LET‘S BEGIN
BEGIN
FIRST STEP
Life Audit
Powerful five-week foundation for self-awareness and clarity
NEXT STEP
Bespoke Engagement
Mind-blowing, paradigm-shifting tailored programme for living a fulfilled life of happiness, peace and joy
(Life Audit is a pre-requisite)
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52 or 26 sessions
so that you can experiment with and integrate the new paradigm into your life
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Open Sessions
Efficient, potent sessions for transcending specific areas or topics
(Life Audit is a pre-requisite)
APPLY
For Life Audit and Bespoke Engagement, please complete an application form which gives me a sense of where you are and what you are looking for
Do we resonate?
I review each application to ensure the programme suits you and your needs and that we may be a good fit. I will be in touch to schedule a free ten-minute online conversation prior to starting a programme to find out that we work well together
START YOUR DISCOVERY
Payment and schedule your sessions
I will send payment details after our free ten-minute online conversation if we are a good fit and we then schedule our sessions.
If you have completed Life Audit &/or Bespoke Engagement and would like to schedule Open Sessions please use the link below
“...when you live in beauty and look from beauty,
everything points in different ways to your wholeness.”
Jean Klein, I Am